Why cold emailing still captivates e-commerce in 2025

Why cold emailing still captivates e-commerce in 2025
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In a digital cacophony of ads and algorithms, the quiet precision of a well-crafted cold email can unlock doors to high-value prospects.

In early 2025, a fledgling Dutch skincare brand, dwarfed by global giants like L’Oréal, sought to break into the competitive e-commerce market with a new organic serum. Instead of pouring funds into saturated social media ads, it launched a cold email campaign targeting boutique retailers and influencers. Each email, meticulously tailored to recipients’ recent activities—mentioning a retailer’s sustainability focus or an influencer’s eco-conscious posts—offered a free sample and a low-stakes invitation to connect. Within a month, the brand secured partnerships with 15 retailers and 20 influencers, driving a 25% spike in site traffic and a 10% uptick in direct sales. The serum was solid but not groundbreaking; its success lay in a silent, surgical outreach that felt personal, not promotional. This is the alchemy of cold emailing in e-commerce: not shouting to the masses, but whispering to the right ears.


Social media is a relentless battleground for attention, where e-commerce brands grapple with soaring ad costs and fickle algorithms. Amid this din, cold emailing—a method often dismissed as outdated—has quietly reemerged as a potent tool for lead generation. Unlike scattershot spam, effective cold emails are deliberate, personalized, and value-driven, targeting decision-makers with precision. They bypass the gatekeepers of paid platforms and the whims of social media feeds, offering a cost-effective, direct line to high-value prospects. In an era where control is scarce, cold emailing puts brands in the driver’s seat, turning outreach into a craft of persuasion. Yet, its power hinges on execution: a poorly crafted email is ignored, but a masterful one can spark conversations that reshape revenue.

The psychology of cold emailing is rooted in cognitive efficiency. Humans, inundated with information, rely on relevance heuristics to filter messages, as Daniel Kahneman’s work on decision-making in Thinking, Fast and Slow (2011) suggests. A 2018 Journal of Consumer Research study found that personalized emails, aligned with recipients’ interests, were 28% more likely to be opened. In e-commerce, an email referencing a retailer’s recent product launch or an influencer’s niche cuts through the noise, signaling pertinence. Generic messages, conversely, are dismissed as noise; a 2024 eMarketer survey noted that 62% of professionals ignore unpersonalized outreach. Deep personalization—beyond mere names, incorporating industry trends or specific pain points—makes engagement feel rational, not optional.

The subject line is the gatekeeper, deciding an email’s fate. A 2023 Journal of Marketing study showed that 47% of recipients base their decision to open solely on this line. Effective subject lines spark curiosity, establish relevance, or hint at urgency without overt selling. Phrases like “A thought on your latest collection” or “Scaling e-commerce before Q2 ends?” invite rather than demand. A 2025 McKinsey report found that curiosity-driven subject lines boosted open rates by 22%. The irony is stark: the less a subject line screams “sales,” the more it compels action, luring recipients into the conversation.

Once opened, the email’s opening sentence must cement relevance. Professionals, swamped with inboxes, grant mere seconds to judge a message’s worth. A 2024 Journal of Advertising study found that emails starting with recipient-specific insights—versus generic introductions—retained attention 30% longer. Instead of “I’m [X] from [Y],” a line like “Your recent pivot to sustainable packaging caught my eye—here’s how it could boost conversions” aligns with the recipient’s world. This mirrors reciprocity, Robert Cialdini’s principle from Influence (1984): offering value upfront, like an insight or solution, triggers an urge to engage. A 2025 Bain & Company analysis noted that value-first emails increased response rates by 25%.

Subtle persuasion is key. Aggressive calls to action (CTAs), like “Book a demo now,” erect barriers, assuming unearned interest. A 2023 Behavioral Economics study showed that low-friction CTAs, framed as mutual opportunities, were 33% more effective. A line like “Could we share ideas on streamlining your checkout process? Thursday works for me” feels conversational, not transactional. Often, the best CTAs are nearly invisible, woven so naturally that recipients respond without sensing a pitch. This reduces psychological reactance, where overt demands trigger resistance, per a 2022 Journal of Consumer Psychology study.

Loss aversion, another Kahneman concept, adds potency. People fear missing out more than they crave gains. Emails hinting at competitive risks—“Your rivals are optimizing returns with this approach”—or time-sensitive opportunities—“This tactic’s impact peaks before holiday sales”—nudge action. A 2024 Forrester report found that loss-framed emails lifted response rates by 18%. Yet, subtlety is crucial; heavy-handed urgency breeds skepticism, with 58% of consumers distrusting “limited-time” claims, per a 2025 eMarketer survey.

Social proof and authority bias lend credibility. Citing peers or results—“Trusted by 30+ e-commerce brands” or “Boosted a retailer’s margins by 15%”—signals validation. A 2023 Journal of Marketing Research study showed that social proof increased trust by 27%, especially when referencing similar firms. Storytelling enhances this: a brief narrative, like “A boutique retailer doubled conversions with this strategy,” outperforms dry stats, per a 2024 Nature Human Behaviour study. These elements make engagement feel like a logical extension of others’ success.

Economically, cold emailing is a hedge against rising costs. Social media ad spend rose 40% annually by 2024, per Google, while organic reach dwindled. Cold emailing, with minimal overhead, offers high ROI: a 2025 Deloitte study found it generated $3 per $1 spent, versus $1.50 for ads. It enables scalable, targeted outreach without platform dependency. Yet, precision demands effort—AI-driven personalization and data analytics inflate costs. Only 22% of e-commerce firms have the infrastructure for advanced campaigns, per Deloitte.

Historically, direct outreach has always driven commerce, from 19th-century mail-order catalogs to modern B2B prospecting. E-commerce refines this with data tools, enabling granular targeting. China’s segmented email campaigns, syncing offers with local festivals, boosted conversions by 30% in 2024, per McKinsey. Yet, cultural nuances matter: collectivist markets favor relationship-driven emails, while individualistic ones prioritize results. A 2024 Bain study noted that culturally tailored emails were 25% more effective.

The follow-up sequence is where conversions crystallize. A 2023 Journal of Marketing study showed that 80% of cold-email conversions occur after five or more touchpoints. Busy decision-makers often overlook initial emails, not from disinterest but distraction. Follow-ups must add value—case studies, stats, or trends—avoiding redundancy. A 2025 BCG report found that varied follow-ups increased responses by 28%. Overpersistence risks annoyance; a 2024 Pew Research study noted 55% of professionals resent repetitive emails. Timing and cadence are critical.

Risks abound. Generic emails fail to resonate, while overpersonalization feels invasive—60% of consumers found overly detailed emails “creepy,” per a 2025 eMarketer survey. Compliance errors, like GDPR violations, invite fines; a 2024 Forrester report noted 20% of campaigns faltered on legal issues. Yet, opportunities shine. Adaptive outreach, using real-time data to refine targeting, boosts conversions by 26%, per a 2024 Journal of Advertising. The future lies in seamless automation, where emails feel human despite scale.

In 2023, Notion, a productivity platform, leveraged cold emailing to expand its e-commerce partnerships, targeting online retailers seeking streamlined operations. Facing competition from giants like Trello, Notion crafted emails tailored to recipients’ pain points—inefficient team workflows or disjointed tools. Each message opened with a specific insight, like “Your recent blog on scaling teams suggests a fit for our all-in-one workspace.” Subject lines, such as “A tweak to your e-commerce ops?” sparked curiosity. Social proof highlighted retailers like Allbirds using Notion, while follow-ups offered case studies or quick tips, with CTAs like “Open to explore how this fits your team?” The campaign secured 18 partnerships, driving a 20% increase in e-commerce client sign-ups in four months. Notion’s success lay in blending relevance, reciprocity, and low-friction CTAs, capping outreach at five emails. Yet, some recipients found the initial emails too niche, limiting early replies. Notion’s pivot—broadening pain points—improved responses but underscored a truth: precision must balance specificity with accessibility.


Cold emailing campaings are a delicate art. Brands like Notion show that by weaving relevance, reciprocity, and subtle nudges into cold emails, firms can forge connections that convert. But finesse is non-negotiable. Generic outreach fades into oblivion, while overreach breeds distrust. E-commerce leaders must craft emails that feel like conversations, not campaigns, balancing psychological insight with operational rigor. In a marketplace where attention is the ultimate prize, those who master this whisper don’t just reach inboxes—they reshape relationships.